Well, yes i am supposed to be working but my excuse is that it is CD1 and my cramps are atrocious and i am waiting for my advil to kick in properly so i can actually *move*. In the meantime, why not blog about my trip?
In fact there is not terribly much to say. I was in Paris for one night, to do some required shopping. It was not easy for me to be in Paris -- for the first time i really felt very little connection to the place. Last year, when i came back, it was still home in a sense -- a place which had been my home. Now, it was not any longer -- i was just a tourist in a tourist town. It helped somewhat to meet J. & his wife for dinner, but still it was so very odd. I am cut off, even more than before, from the part of my life that included Nicolas. Okay, i mean included Nicolas as an independent entity, as himself. Now he is included of course, but it is an inclusion that is fostered only by what i do and what i say.
So this was very depressing, and i was glad to leave town. The next day i took the train down to Poitiers, which is where my conference was taking place (at the Universite de Poitiers). Poitiers is (i learned) the capital of the region of Poiteau-Charentes which sort of your usual French countriside area full of some castles & monastaries & stuff that might be interesting to go see if you had a car but you do not. Plus J. had taken a hotel near the conference, which was rather outside of town, near the university. First of all this hotel was not very good, (the beds were atrocious) and the environs left something to be desired -- to go to the conference we had to walk this lovely way across several strip malls. Not very european to be sure, more like the suburbs in the States.

There were some nice things in the town of Poitiers -- they
have a beautiful Romanesque cathedral with fabulous stonework and great history

and the centre ville has alot of the old half-timbered houses still (most of these are long gone in Paris)
From a professional point of view the conference was mostly useless, and irritating (it was not organized very well). My talk went well enough though it was sparesly attended (probably a good thing, considering). I didn't even get to talk to my advisor for more than 10 minutes. Basically long enough for her to tell me that in her opinion i have a very slim chance of getting an NSF grant again -- yeah she said it nicely, but that was the message. So, what with my chairman's little lecture about my publishing record a month ago, i can tell you i am feeling ever so positive about my career trajectory these days. Ugh. Usually these conferences will really galvanize me -- i return with new ideas, excited about my work and ready to roll. Not this year -- this year i return ready to crawl under a rock and take up a permanent residence there.
Well, that is neither here nor there. The conf ended on Wendesday but our session ended on Tuesday. Most everyone left Poitiers as soon as they possibly could, which tells you a little about the whole situation. I was going to stay in Poitiers until Wed. night, because Paris was so depressing to me. However on tuesday evening i had dinner with a girl i met there, I., who is a current student of my advisor's. She had never been out of the country before, and made her own travel arrangements without the benefit of any advice. Which meant that she had arranged to spend the whole week in Poitiers, in some ridiculously located hotel (it was so ridiculously located that she didn't meet anyone until like the last 2 days, and ate in McDonald's half the time) and would never have even *seen* Paris.
So of course this would not do at all, so i changed our tickets and had her accompany me to Paris on Wed. morning and we spent all Wednesday as tourists, seeing the sites and shopping. We made a good pair because I. is very much like me in her interest in the seeing of tourist sites -- go there, take a picture or two, then hit the stores. So in fact i had alot of fun, and after our tourist day we had a very nice dinner with J. and his wife, and the next morning we went to the airport and flew out of there.
So i was lucky, somehow, to meet up with this girl -- because she made being in Paris bearable to me -- and she was lucky to meet up with me, because i made being in Paris possible for her. And she and i will probably do a little paper for the conference proceedings too, so it was all good all around.
Anyway, that is the quick synopis of the thing. I suppose all's well that ends well. On the airplane back i was lucky too -- firstly because i didn't get AF on the plane (something i was rather worried about) and secondly in the matter of seating. I had been assigned seat D which is in the middle of the plane, the worst one. And then, as the plane filled it appeared that there were two unaccompanied children seated to my right, and another child (a boy around 12) on my left. The boy on the left obviously had some issue (hyperactivity, mild autism, i don't know, but some issue) and was travelling with his mother but they were not seated together. You can just imagine spending 9 hours sitting between the hyperactive and the unaccompanied....OY!! But i offered to exchange with the hyperactive boy's mother, so she could sit with him, and she agreed. I thought it was odd that she did not come out immediately and ask me, but who knows? Maybe she thought i was with the kids to the left. Hers was a nice aisle seat next to some perfectly quiet adults....i was most pleased.
And of course C got some frocks from Paris...mostly stuff for next year but this one she can wear now.
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And i brought her a whole host of stuff for Abee (the doll formerly known as Satan baby), that is his new bottle that is in her mouth. She now also has a diaper, bib, diaper bag, diaper pad etc. for him. You can see him in the back of the picture, surrounded by all of it. Oh, and i also got him a new outfit and a tea set, but i am saving those for her birthday...that Abee is one spoiled doll...
I seriously need more Advil...